Saturday, March 26, 2011

Don't Talk About It - Blog About It!

We all have issues and challenges in life.  Sometimes we need to verbalize and get problems off of our chest.  But, today, most folks do not want to constantly hear about other folks' complaints, whining, groaning and just outright bitching. 

Some folks simply do not get it!  They call on the telephone which is very intrusive and annoying.  You never hear from the whiner until they have something to bitch about.  They tend to be self centered and dominate conversations with their personal problems.  When I contact them for a chat, they do not respond.  So, I have effectively blocked those folks out of my life.  Last week, a person who is unsuccessful at work called me constantly.  She called when I was at work, while I was home resting, early in the morning and late at night.  Her goal is to saturate me with her problems.  But, I no longer accept her calls.  THANK GOODNESS FOR CALLER ID!!

Last night another former co-worker called me.  I had never chatted with her on the phone.  But, I went ahead and answered her call.  She bitched for 30 minutes non-stop.  She complained about everyone in her work area. She said nothing good about anyone.  Well, needless to say, I will never accept her calls again. 

Working folks need to go see a therapist, psychologist or even a psychiatrist to help them cope.  I am none of those, so I no longer allow those calls to me. 

What folks need to do is blog about their problems.  Blogging is not intrusive.  Others may even leave a constructive comment. The truth may hurt a bit, but give it a try.  Some folks cannot write, so they will not blog.  But, phone calls to me to listen to another person bitch, moan and whine is no longer an option.

LEARN HOW TO BLOG!!!!

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